Max from Real Social Dynamics – Premium – Fearless
Was geht ab! This is Max from Real Social Dynamics, and I have a question for you:
Are you someone who suffers from Fear or Approach Anxiety?
When you go out, do you experience feelings of self-doubt, maybe even self-hatred, shyness…
What about other negative thoughts, such as nervousness?
It’s easy because the Fears of your past have a profound effect on your NOW.
They have a profound effect on your self-expression.
They have a profound effect on your ability to let go and have fun.
They have a profound effect on the very girl you’re talking to.
But most importantly… they have an effect on your ability to put into ACTION what you’re learning in our RSD videos.
But the question is:
To what extent?
To what extent is your fear actually keeping you from getting BETTER RESULTS?
THAT IS THE SUBJECT OF FEARLESS,
THE APPROACH ANXIETY BUSTER
- “I’m afraid of getting rejected…”
- “I’m afraid of approaching that attractive girl…”
- “I’m afraid of running out of things to say…”
- “I’m afraid of that other guy she’s here with…”
- “I’m afraid I’m not good enough…”
- “I’m afraid of the other people that are going to judge me…”
- “I’m afraid I’m a loser, I’m inexperienced…”
Whatever it is…
Fearless is going to help you CONQUER THAT FEAR
This last year has been a really really crazy experience for me.
I had just released The Natural, I had just wrapped up three years of crazy touring and traveling…
And, it was extremely satisfying and humbling, but also extremely draining for me.
I was happy to see all my students, all of the guys watching my videos getting AMAZING RESULTS.
Amping it up, becoming a better version of themselves – I was very proud and very humbled by that.
But at the same time, I knew it’s not time to go “all-out”, and really go pedal to the metal – I had been doing that for years already.
For me – this was not really a time to celebrate, this was not a time push hard or to go all-out.
This was a time to relax… a time to let go, to breathe, to take a little rest.
To nurture the side of me that I haven’t nurtured in a long while.
It was time to just be Max.
The guy that loves to play Playstation, the guy who’s chilling, reading books…
Not expanding… but actually contracting.
I settled down in one place, and for the first time in years – I took my time to process this crazy roller-coaster whirlwind experience of the last couple years.
I had traveled around the world 3 times…
I had been with all these girls… always chasing the next 10, the next 10…
I had taught hundreds of seminars…
And while I was extremely proud of all that success…
Something came back… something that I thought I had already conquered.
IT WAS FEAR
Fear came back… Shyness came back…
Thought I conquered it, but in reality – I was just covering it up.
With all the traveling, with all the girls, with all the success…
But I realized something… this wasn’t just my fear.
We are ALL sharing this fear.
The guys out there in the clubs doing approaches, the guys at my seminars, even the students at my bootcamps.
We are all carrying around this fear…
This fear of past traumatic experiences, past downfalls, past rejections.
It’s that we don’t know “what to do” when it comes to attracting girls…
It’s that WE ARE AFRAID
We are afraid to put ourselves out there, afraid of sticking out, of being judged, of being rejected…
We are afraid… and that fear HURTS US DEEPLY
So, I made conquering this fear my new mission.
I made alleviating you from approach anxiety my new goal.
I became OBSESSED
I asked myself, “How can I be the catalyst to help you finally BREAK THROUGH…”
So I dove in, head first and started to lay out the program to end Approach Anxiety ONCE AND FOR ALL
IT CRUSHED ME to watch guys just like you struggle time and time again with fear, self-expression, and approach anxiety.
IT PISSED ME OFF that great guys with great potential, smart guys who have the knowledge – still coming home frustrated, angry, and confused.
IT ANGERED ME that there was no other resource out there, no one seemed to care. Guys were suffering, and IT KILLED ME that no one was willing to step up and help.
I wanted to tackle this one important sticking point, which is FEAR & APPROACH ANXIETY.
I wanted to see my students ENJOY GAME AGAIN
I wanted to RE-IGNITE THAT PASSION in them that I used to have…
And, in a way… I wanted to reignite that passion in MYSELF.
I wanted to see my seminar attendees GET EXCITED about approaching, growing improving…
I wanted to see guys on the street and in the club LIGHT UP when they realize that:
“YES, THIS IS POSSIBLE!”
We’ve all been there…
You’re walking down the street, minding your own business, and then it happens…
You See HER
That perfect girl, she stands out of the crowd…
She’s pretty, she’s beautiful, she’s amazing…
And for just a tiny little second – your eyes meet.
And you get stuck, you get paralyzed.
There’s this one moment where you think:
“Am I gonna talk to her”
“Am I gonna keep going?”
You can never really grasp the possibilities of that one thought.
What’s gonna happen if you DO talk to her?
You stumble, you stutter… BUT YOU DO IT.
Just imagine that for a moment…
You exchange numbers, you meet her for a second date, and you realize that she’s not just a pretty, beautiful girl, but she’s AWESOME, she’s FUN, she’s AMAZING TO HANG OUT WITH.
You want more of this… you want more of HER…
You crave her, and little do you know… she craves you too…
There’s passion, there’s affection, there’s connection… when you’re with her – time ceases to exist.
There is no fear, there is no job, there is no stress, no worry, no thoughts running through your head…
There is just her, and you… together in that single moment when your lips touch for the first time.
You pull her closer, you rip each other’s clothes off, and you have the most amazing and passionate sex of your life…
Maybe it doesn’t stop there.
Maybe you decide to go deeper… be closer…
Maybe she turns out to be the girl of your dreams.
Maybe you end up in a beautiful, happy, caring relationship.
Maybe you get to live… and die… with her by your side…
But HEY… WAKE UP
You’re still standing there… and you’re still wondering…
“Am I Going to Talk to Her?”
Why haven’t you already?
Why don’t you already have…
- The girl you want
- The body you want
- The job you want
- The happiness you want
- The life you want
It all has to do with 1 simple thing:
As you are here, right now reading this, you are probably thinking:
“YES, YES I WILL!”
It doesn’t matter where you are right now, your results (or your lack of results), it is directly linked to your ability to deal with fear.
Every set, every approach, every experience that you’ve had has always been affected by fear.
Those fears, the fears we all share – those are called BASE FEARS
The purpose of Fearless, The Approach Anxiety Buster is to CONQUER those base fears.
Some of these fears include:
- Fear of rejection (fear of failure)
- Fear of running out of things to say (perfectionism)
- Fear of what other people think of me (fear of judgement)
- Fear of other guys
- Fear of escalation, being polarizing, or being sexual
- Fear of not being good enough
- Fear of loud environments / dance floor
These fears are pre-programmed into our mind.
Sure, you can stay in your comfort zone, settle for average women, and drone away at the job you hate for 40 years until you retire.
You can DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
Now, before we dig further into Fearless and how it’s going to help you
(and why it’s 100% CRITICAL for you to get it RIGHT NOW),
let’s look at fear, and UNDERSTAND IT.
WHAT IS FEAR?
Fear as the root for negative emotional states…
“I am afraid I’m not good enough…”
“I am afraid of my own inability to take action..”
“I am not able to live with my fear, and am mis-directing that fear at someone / something else…”
“I am experiencing self-attack because I am not strong enough to deal with my fear.”
”I am in pain because I am too scared to go through the process of facing my fear.”
Fear is a survival mechanism…
- FEAR ONLY EXISTS IN SITUATIONS THAT COUNT
- The primary purpose of fear is to recognize danger. This is why when you see a hot girl, the first thing you want to do is ESCAPE! Your brain recognizes that something important is happening… it’s now or never… it’s DO OR DIE!
Fear is inevitable…
- YOU CANNOT AVOID FEAR
- Fear is everywhere – even if you lock yourself in a box – there is no way to escape the fear. We can’t completely remove fear, but what we can do is use it to SERVE US.
Fear is an emotional ISOLATOR…
- FEAR ISOLATES YOU
- Fear makes you ALONE in the world, it puts you in a little black box and it buries you with it… fear makes you feel lost… standing there wondering why you are the only one experiencing it. (Hint: YOU’RE NOT THE ONLY ONE!)
Fear is important…
- FEAR IS NECESSARY
- Fear keeps you safe, but not only that, it does something else that is even more important – it wakes us up, it drives us, it motivates us – If it wasn’t for fear, we would accomplish NOTHING!
What do most people do with fear?
They RUN AWAY
Some people see fear as a reason NOT to do something…
They see an attractive girl, and the first thing they want to do is remove themselves from the situation. They drown their fear in escapism and short-term gratification.
Others try to control fear, they try to hold on to their fear, they try to put their fear in a box and lock it up instead of simply LETTING GO. They UNDER-FUNCTION
Others become so paralyzed by fear that they are unable to take action, unable to move, unable to talk, unable to DO ANYTHING about it.
Now the question is:
What do YOU do with fear?
Are you going to run away?
Fear will come back.
You can try to ignore it… suppress it… drown it…
But it will always be there…
“Fear is the refrigerator hum of life.”
You can try to overcompensate and out-hustle the fear, but it will always come back…
You can try to hide from the fear, you can tuck yourself away in the safety of your comfort zone…
But then, one day, you will look up and you will ask yourself:
“What if I had overcome that fear?”
“What if I had talked to that girl?”
“What would I have? …Who would I know? …Where would I be?”
“What have I missed out on?”
“What are the experiences of a life FULL OF ADVENTURE that I’m not getting to see?”
But most importantly…
“WHO WOULD I BE?”
The scariest thing is that…
You will NEVER know the answer.
You won’t even know what you’ve missed.
Is that really the life that you want?
You can keep going down that path that you’ve been on for years already…
That path of waiting… hoping… guessing…
You can keep tapping in the dark, blindly stumbling trying to find a solution on your own…
You can build on top of the YEARS of research, field-testing, and trial-and-error that I have put into this program…
You can trust in the expertise and experience that my top students expect from my training…
You can join the other guys JUST LIKE YOU who are already taking action…
And you can, in fact…